Relationship and Couples Issues

Relationship Issues Counselling for Men

At Counselling and Psychotherapy Services for Men, we recognise the distinct relationship challenges faced by men in today’s society. Our Relationship Counselling for Men is specially designed to support men through the complexities of romantic, familial, and professional relationships, employing an existential approach that addresses not just the “how” but the “why” behind relationship dynamics.

We are proud to focus our services on men within the Eastern Suburbs of Sydney and the neighbouring areas, offering flexible consultation options to meet your needs. Whether you prefer the intimacy and direct connection of face-to-face sessions in our welcoming Surry Hills office or the convenience of telehealth video conferences, we are here to accommodate you.

Our Approach

Our service provides a confidential and supportive environment to explore issues such as:

  • Difficulty Expressing Emotions: Empowering men to break through emotional barriers and enhance communication, leading to more rewarding relationships.
  • Fear of Vulnerability: Creating a safe space to confront fears of vulnerability, fostering deeper connections and emotional intimacy.
  • Pressure to Provide: Alleviating the stress linked to societal expectations around provision and exploring broader definitions of worth.
  • Communication Misunderstandings: Bridging different communication styles to reduce conflict and promote harmony.
  • Difficulty Addressing Conflict: Equipping men with strategies to manage conflict constructively, facilitating growth within the relationship.
  • Inadequate Attention to Emotional Needs: Encouraging an understanding and fulfillment of emotional needs for both partners.
  • Unrealistic Expectations: Adjusting expectations to foster more satisfying relationship experiences.
  • Difficulty Balancing Work and Personal Life: Striking a healthier work-life balance to enhance relationship satisfaction.
  • Unresolved Personal Issues: Addressing past issues and insecurities to improve relationship dynamics.
  • Difficulty Adapting to Changes: Navigating life changes together, viewing them as opportunities for relationship development.
  • Dealing with Personal Trauma: Providing a compassionate space to explore and heal from personal trauma that impacts relationship dynamics, fostering resilience and a healthier connection with oneself and one’s partner.
  • Navigating Partner’s Mental Health Issues: Offering guidance and support for men facing the complexities of a partner’s mental health challenges, helping them to provide effective support without neglecting their own well-being.
  • Overcoming Leadership and Insecurity Challenges: Empowering men to address feelings of inadequacy in leadership roles within relationships and confront insecurities, promoting a balanced and equitable partnership.
  • Jealousy and Trust Issues: Addressing jealousy and trust issues head-on, working towards building a foundation of trust and security within the relationship.
  • Substance Use and Its Impact on Relationships: Tackling the challenges posed by drugs and alcohol, focusing on understanding the impact of substance use on relationships and exploring pathways to recovery and relationship healing.
  • Navigating Relationship Drift and Healthy Separation: Providing strategies and support for men experiencing a drift in their relationships, facilitating a healthy dialogue around separation if necessary, and ensuring a respectful and constructive transition for all involved.

Who Can Benefit?

This counselling is tailored for men seeking to enhance their relationship skills, understand their own needs and behaviours, and develop deeper, more meaningful connections. Whether you’re encountering communication challenges, emotional barriers, or the pressures of societal expectations, our sessions provide insights and tools for growth.

Why Choose Us?

Counselling and Psychotherapy Services for Men is committed to offering personalised care grounded in existential principles. Our experienced therapists specialise in men’s issues, guiding you through the intricacies of relationships with compassion and understanding. By integrating therapeutic techniques with existential themes, we aim to support your journey towards more fulfilling relationships. Understanding the unique needs of our clients, we strive to provide a premium counselling experience. Our services are tailored for those who value and are seeking high-quality, specialised support in their personal growth and relationship journey. While our fees reflect the expertise and customised care we provide, it’s important to note that they may not be covered by Medicare. We believe in transparent and open communication about the financial investment in our services, ensuring you can make an informed decision about your mental health care.

Existential Approach in Couples Counselling

Our existential approach, inspired by the article “Using Existential Themes in Couples Counselling: Addressing the ‘Why’ as well as the ‘How’,” delves into the depth of relationship dynamics. By exploring existential themes such as the subjectivity of experience and the importance of personal responsibility, we help couples understand the underlying motivations for their behaviours. This understanding fosters a deeper connection and commitment to behaviour change, facilitating a more authentic and meaningful relationship experience.

Existential therapy offers a range of benefits that can profoundly impact an individual’s life and well-being, including:

  1. Enhanced Self-Awareness: This approach encourages clients to explore their inner thoughts, emotions, and values deeply, promoting heightened self-awareness. This richer self-understanding aids in making more meaningful choices and provides insight into one’s unique place in the world, enabling clearer navigation through life’s challenges.
  2. Improved Coping Skills: Clients learn to navigate uncertainty and adversity by developing effective coping mechanisms that align with their authentic selves. These strategies help manage difficult emotions and stress, keeping individuals grounded and able to tackle life’s challenges more adeptly.
  3. Improved Relationship with Others: Existential therapy can unearth skills that help build strong, healthy relationships, fostering a sense of community and support. By overcoming relational challenges, individuals can cultivate more meaningful connections with those around them.
  4. Greater Personal Fulfillment: This therapeutic approach aids individuals in discovering their life’s purpose and values, leading to a more fulfilling existence. Aligning actions with core values enhances a profound sense of satisfaction and contentment in daily life, beyond superficial happiness.
  5. Reduction in Existential Anxiety: Through existential therapy, clients can experience a significant reduction in the anxiety that comes from life’s fundamental uncertainties. Developing resilience and effective coping strategies allows for a more confident approach to existential questions, promoting inner peace and acceptance.

By integrating these benefits into our counselling practice, we support clients in achieving not just temporary solutions but lasting changes that enhance their overall quality of life and relationships. Our commitment to the existential approach ensures a depth of engagement with each individual’s unique challenges and aspirations, leading to transformative outcomes.


Embark on your journey toward deeper connection and understanding. Contact Counselling and Psychotherapy Services for Men today at [Your Contact Information].